11/5/2017 0 Comments The positive note you need today.As much as I enjoy writing about fashion reviews and lifestyle, there are times I reflect upon my life and find out that I can communicate much more than just styling tips. These past few weeks have been rough trying to cope with schoolwork, work events, and personal problems. It was as if the world decided to take a pile of sand and dump it on my head. As much as I tried shaking off all the sand and wash it away, there was still some sand that slipped through the cracks and stayed. Sometimes we disregard the small details that bother us, but in the process we start creating a bigger problem we can't untangle on our own. So, how do we fix it?
Simple answer is: we can't fix it immediately. I have gone through difficult situations that test my limits and certainly make me doubt myself, but I am still here trying to make life work. I still write my essays the night before they are due, just like any other college kid, but I always come back to what makes me happy. It took me a while to understand it, but I truly believe that I have a purpose in life. Although I am only 21 years old, and I have no clue if my fashion marketing career will be successful, I know that I want to cultivate happiness in people's lives. That is the root of what makes me happy, and that is what always comes back to me when I plan out my goals. The world of fashion has provided me with such a wonderful opportunity to share happiness and beauty form my own perspective. I really hope you look at yourself in the mirror and find at least one good thing you can compliment about yourself. I know it is a difficult thing, but we need it. As a society, we need to engage in positive empowerment and encouragement to be kind. You are probably such a wonderful human being, but your vision is clouded by all the hate you give yourself. Trust me. I know it sucks to feel like the world is ending and there is no escaping, but I believe someone is looking up to you. Whatever project you worked on last week and you thought it was trash? Someone saw it and learned more about you, and they liked it! You are not trash. Your ideas are not trash. You are in a brainstorming session to be the best version of yourself, and that is okay. Even through my dark times I know there are people that love me and look out for me. I know that at least one person in the entire world is looking up to me. I know that I matter. You might be going through some very difficult situation that has left you broken on the inside. I can't promise I will fix it, but here is my inspirational speech to you: ----There has been so many tragedies in 2017, and I know you also have your personal issues to resolve. There might be times when you don't feel like leaving bed, or there is not enough power to hold back the tears. It happens without notice, and you might feel alone, but you are not. There is at least one person that cares about you. You have so much potential to develop your dreams into goals, I know you can do it. I always got told I was too much of a dreamer and that i should be more realistic, but I kept being a dream driven girl. Those dreams could be classified as stupid by some people, but I just stopped caring because I have gotten great results and happiness by following my heart. I know you can get through it (whatever darkness is holding you down) and you don't have to do it alone, I believe in you, and I look up to you for waking up today and already taking the initiative to be kind to yourself.
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